“Instead of worrying about what people say of you, why not spend time trying to accomplish something they will admire? ” - Dale Carnegie

Have you come to think the above quote is also applicable in mlm lead prospecting and network marketing?

It is.

Why not follow Dale Carnegie advice?

I mean, something like:

“Instead of worrying about what people (co-workers, family members, friends, etc.) may think about us when working with our mlm leads over the phone, we just work hard and do something which will create appreciation comments from all of them, thanks to the big recruiting numbers we could be creating. That way will prove to them what we are made of.”

“Yeah, let’s show them our real MLM character!”

Of course we can.  If we work hard at it, that is.

But here’s a problem right away.

A big problem.

We don’t want to be dependent on people and their approval for us to feel good about MLM.

This is not a good thing for us, network marketers/MLMers and MLM lead prospectors..

Having other people’s approval on a MLM game they don’t even know how to play well -otherwise they’d be playing it , I can assure you - is not a good way of conducting our MLM business.

Relying on other people’s opinions to see if this mlm deal we are into is good for us or not,  is putting these other people at cause point, and us, at effect.

Kind of waiting for their final approval seal, as if they were our business mentors.

Well, they’re not.

Listen, a network marketer is made of a different marketing quality.

Different skin, if you like.

We are not made of bo-peep (regular) mentality.

We’re playing a different game.

Sorry, we play by other rules.

The tough, entrepreneurial spirit rules that is.

There’s not much choice anyway: either we play by our rules or we don’t survive.

Think hard about I just said.

Be yourself, please.

Be yourself.

Depend on NO ONE for your network marketing company decisions.

You rule.

I hope this can help you.